You, as the main character.
You are the one who makes the reservation, gives the toast, remembers the birthday, drives to the airport at five in the morning. You have been a supporting character in a hundred other people's big days. The Main Character Weekend turns that around: a long weekend in Chicago, built from the particulars of your own story and surrounded by the people who supplied them. The rooms of your life, rebuilt and walkable. The dishes nobody has made right in decades, made right. The things usually saved for the eulogy, said out loud, to your face.
It is not a party and it is not a retrospective. It is a work of stewardship, composed to one person, performed once, in the city we love.